18 things he's programmed to do when he's into you (2023)

He likes me, he doesn't like me...

Is he interested? You're into a guy, but you're trying to figure out if he feels the same way. Sometimes you feel like you know, and sometimes you're not sure. it drives you crazy You think he's going to ask you out soon because you've caught him staring at you a few times or he's always flirting with you. Every time he does something that makes you wonder if he's into you, you ask yourself and your friends questions like, "What does it mean if he opens the car door for me?" and "Why did he give me his jacket given if he looks cold with just a sweater?"

If he still hasn't touched you, you think he was just being nice. Hold this thought: It's possible that he's not ready to tell you how he feels about you. He's probably nervous, and maybe he's trying to figure out if you like him too.

Here's the list of 18 things he's programmed to do when he's into you. If he does most of these things, then you have your answer. He's into you girl!

18He walks on the outside of the sidewalk to protect you

It's very considerate of him to walk on the outside of the sidewalk when you're with him. He does it because he wants to protect you. Sometimes there are puddles on the road and he doesn't want you to get splashed when cars drive by. It's another way to keep you out of traffic. There are also some creeps, so he wants to prevent them from talking to you or even grabbing you. You might be surprised by the gesture when it first happens to you. Not many men know about this unwritten rule, and that's okay. He's definitely a goalkeeper if he makes you go inside. You get an idea of ​​what it would be like to be in a relationship with him.

17It subconsciously mirrors your words and movements

It's a sign he's into you when he subconsciously mirrors your words and movements. If you cross your arms, he crosses his arms. If you tilt your head to the right, he tilts his head to the right. If you take a sip of your drink, he takes a sip of his drink. You might not realize it, but if you do, you might think he's taunting you. He is not. Maybe he doesn't even realize what he's doing. You can ask him why he's copying you, but he won't have an answer. It's not just the movements that he mirrors. It could also happen with words. If you use the same word in every sentence, chances are he'll end up using that word too.

16He forgets his phone and everyone else when you are around

It's hard to put down your phone when you have all these social media apps on your phone: Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Snapchat. You can literally spend all day talking to your friends, reading about celebrities online, watching series on Netflix, liking Instagram pics, etc. But when you're around, all he wants is to spend time with you. He drops everything he has been doing like talking to his friends or playing with his phone. He approaches you to start a conversation. When he talks to you, he forgets his phone and everyone else in the room. It's like they don't exist for him. He doesn't turn to see where his friends are or who is standing next to him. He only has eyes for you. You have his full attention. Isn't it cute?

15He delays the moment to say goodbye because he doesn't want to leave

When he spends time with you, he tries to make the best of it. He loves talking to you and it doesn't matter what you talk about as long as you enjoy it. Even when he's not lookingstranger things, he will want you to tell him everything and he will even ask you questions to show his interest. It just makes him happy that you are with him because he obviously likes you. He gets sad when it's time for you to go. He's trying to delay the moment of goodbye because he doesn't want you to leave just yet. He is considering whether to ask you when he will see you again or whether to invite you to go out with him and his friends this weekend and she could bring her friends too.

14He quickly looks away if you catch him staring at you

It's an obvious sign he's into you if he quickly looks away when you catch him staring at you. He likes to look at you when you're not looking because he's shy about making eye contact with you and he's not sure what to do when you look him in the eye. He doesn't want you to think he's a weirdo if you keep catching him looking at you, so he quickly looks away. Unfortunately, sometimes things don't go fast enough. Anyway, when he looks at you, he's trying to work up the courage to talk to you. He thinks about approaching you, but then backs away. It happens a few more times. It could be his lack of confidence. He's afraid he might make a fool of himself on his way to you.

13He asks hypothetical questions like, "What would you say if I asked you to be my date for my boyfriend's wedding?"

Many men tend to ask specific questions to get an idea of ​​how you feel about him. Sometimes he'll literally ask you, "Can I ask you a hypothetical question?" and if you say safe, he'll ask, "What would you say if I asked you to be my date for my boyfriend's wedding?" He wants to know the answer before formally asking you the question in case you say no. He likes you and he wants to see if you feel the same way. He obviously feels less rejected with hypothetical questions. Another scenario is when one of his close friends asks you, "If he asked you out, would you go out with him?" If his close friends interfere, it means something is definitely going on. Guys also talk to each other about the girls they like.

12He'll surprise you with your favorite coffee when he knows you're busy

He's totally into you when he surprises you with your favorite coffee, especially when he knows you're busy with school or work. Maybe you're doing a whole night in the library because you're on a semester break. Maybe you're stuck at work because there's so much to do. It's cute that he's thinking about you, and it's even cuter when he knows your favorite coffee. He knows what you need and will bring it to you without you asking. He hopes this will make you feel better and also help you focus. It doesn't have to be coffee. It could also be the food. Sometimes there is no time to eat because you don't want to waste time. So it's very considerate of him when he tells you to take a break because he brought you something to eat.

11He gets uncomfortable when another guy tries to talk to you

It's a sure sign he likes you if he feels a little uncomfortable when another guy tries to talk to you. He knows guys will be attracted to you, so it's no surprise when they approach you. But it bothers him when you give another guy your undivided attention. It makes him insecure and he sees the other as competition. A lot of thoughts go through his mind when he sees you getting touchy about someone else. He's worried that this guy might blow your mind and blow his chance at a relationship with you. It annoys him that he can't do anything about it because he's not your friend. He can't pull you away or tell the guy you're off limits.

10He holds the umbrella more over you on a rainy day while getting wet

We often forget to take an umbrella when it's supposed to rain, and sometimes it just rains so we never know when we'll have to carry one. It's nice when he offers to share the umbrella with you so you don't get wet. Most umbrellas are not designed to be used by two people at the same time. Because he's a gentleman, he makes sure the umbrella covers you more than he does. You may not notice that it is getting wet. If he didn't like you, chances are you got wet because he takes care of his hair that he tilts the umbrella more to his side. He might also come closer to you to avoid getting wet. It could be a good thing as long as he's not pushing you.

9He licks his lips, scratches his head, puts his hands in and out of his pockets

He fidgets a lot when he's nervous. He will lick his lips, scratch his head, put his hands in and out of his pocket, etc. This is because you make him nervous. He doesn't know what to do when you're around. You'll see that he's also sipping his drink more than usual. All these actions also mean that he is thinking. He thinks about what he would like to say to you when he should ask you questions about your hobbies or talk about things that might be of interest to you. He worries that you might find him awkward and boring. That's not exactly the impression he wants to make on you. Overall it's pretty cute how nervous he is around you. It's a sign that he's really into you.

8He stands or sits near you and invades your personal space

When you are with him, he tends to stand or sit near you and invade your personal space. Maybe he doesn't even realize he's doing it. He just wants to bridge the gap between you and him. He sits close to you because he wants to listen carefully to what you have to say. You may either feel uncomfortable or grateful. Guys know how much we love to talk and complain when we feel like they're not listening. He stands close to you because he wants to protect you from people bumping into you, and he can grab you quickly if you fall. In a way, he also sends a message to the other guys that you are with him. His body language can say a lot about how he feels about you.

7He notices small changes in your appearance and compliments you

Many guys rarely notice small changes in your looks, but guys who like you will notice that there is something different about you. You got bangs the other day and he tells you how amazing you look with bangs. You dyed your hair from light brown to dark brown, and although no one has said anything about your new look, they tell you that they like this color on you better than the previous one. It's obvious that he's into you. He notices the small changes you made because he cares about you. Sometimes even your friends can't tell what you did. It's not like he checks you every time he sees you. He can't help but really look at you when he's talking to you and admire everything about you, like your looks and your personality.

6He gets happy when he sees you and teases you to flirt

Aww, he can't help but smile when he sees you. He approaches you without hesitation because he is too eager to talk to you. It doesn't matter if he has spoken to other people because he will excuse himself to go to you. When he is down, seeing you also makes him happy. You lift his spirits. It's cute. However, he tends to tease you when you're talking. It's his way of flirting. When you tell him you want to take a kickboxing class, he smiles and teases you, "You? No way." You'll ask him why, and he'll give you a look and say, "You're so small." He's just having a little fun with you, and it shows in the way he's acting .

5He doesn't talk about other girls (unless you ask him about his past relationships)

Most guys don't talk about other girls when they like someone. He knows it's best not to talk about past relationships or girls he's had affairs with because it's unnecessary. He also doesn't want you to think that he djed with his ex or that he's a gamer. However, he might be open to talking about his past girlfriends if you ask him. He wants to be honest with you and he doesn't want you to think that he's still hurt from the breakups. He might also have some questions about your past relationships, so it's only fair to answer your questions. Sometimes it's good to get it out of the way. Overall, he doesn't really think about other girls when he's with you because you're the only person on his mind.

4He puts his hand on your lower back to guide you through a crowd

There are some things guys are programmed to do when they're into you. One of the things he will do is put his hand on your lower back to guide you through a crowd. His hand supports you from falling and he somehow keeps you from other people bumping into you. He wants to make sure you get where you need to be without getting hurt. When there is a large crowd, especially in a bar or at a party, it can definitely be difficult to walk anywhere without people shoving and shoving you. Seriously, being a gentleman never goes out of style. When he puts his hand on your lower back, it also makes it look like you're a couple in other people's eyes. Touching the lower back is quite intimate.

3He opens the door for you and lets you go ahead

When a guy is into you, he will put his best foot forward because he cares about what you think of him. He wants you to like him. It shows that he is a true gentleman when he opens the door and lets you go ahead. Some of you might be thinking, "I can open the door myself," but it's just one of his ways of showing you that he thinks of you first. It is sweet. It might not be a big deal if you see him opening the door for you and other people because he might just be a polite person. While that may be true, it's a sure sign that he's into you if he opens the car door for you too. It shows that chivalry is not dead.

2He lends you his jacket to keep you warm on a chilly day

We've all seen romantic movies where the guy gives his jacket to the girl he likes when it's cold outside. It's something that also happens in real life. He lends you his jacket to keep you warm, even if he's cold himself. He says he's fine, but he probably isn't. It shows that he puts your needs first. He cares about you and he doesn't want you to catch a cold. If other guys are around, then it's also a way for him to tell them to back off because you're his. Even if you're not with him all the time and hanging out with your friends, it still tells the other guys not to hit on you. It looks like you have a boyfriend when you wear a man's jacket.

1He laughs at something you said, even if it's not that funny

He's interested in you when he laughs at everything you say, even if it's not really funny. It could be because he's nervous. You make him nervous because he doesn't know what to do when you talk to him. He listens to you and appreciates everything you say, but he thinks you might think he's weird or something if he says the wrong thing. So he laughs when he sees you laugh because it would be wrong to let you laugh alone. It might also make him look disinterested in the conversation if he doesn't. If you're talking to a group of people and he's the only one actually laughing at what you said because you were trying to be funny, then he's totally infatuated with you. He wants you to know that he finds you funny.